It's funny watch people respond to my transition from relaxed to natural hair. I get all kinds of reactions from 'wow look at YOU' to 'hi there, I don't know what to say about your hair so I'll just look away and pretend I don't see it 😳' . My favorite reaction of all was from someone who told me I'm very frisky with my new hair. Frisky hmm, I don't hear that word much but I kind of like it! If it means I'm coming into my own, gracefully and without hesitance or apology then I'm all for it. How often do we spend our lives putting a shade on our light to not blind the sensitive eyes around us. I like what feeling frisky is doing in my life and I want you to experience this surge in your life too, so of course this week's Sun-day design is for you to be frisky. I want you to feel so comfortable and enamored with your own self people can't help but notice the real you.
The word frisky has such a juicy tang to it I had to find out what it actually means. Urbandictionary.com defines frisky as "possessing a sexual feeling". Google.com defines frisky as "lively, bouncy, bubbly, perky, active, energetic, animated, spirited, exuberant..." I really can go on, but when I read just these words alone I say, YES! I want to live like this!
What woman doesn't want to feel sexual, vibrant, high-spirited, bubbly, and let's not forget about perky too! What man or woman isn't attracted to a lady who is self-assured, excited about life, and gives off positive energy?
For some women all it takes to feel frisky is putting on her favorite dress (and having it fit!), wearing hot red lipstick, or lathering herself in a favorite pursue or body oil. I want your frisky feeling to last so you may also think about getting a massage, going out dancing, or playing hooky from work to spend the day with you. The key is to choose something that enhances or cultivates an part of you that's often ignored. If it's your mind, journal or read a book you've wanted to get to for some time. If it's your body, treat it with care. If it's your heart, share it with others.
Turns out it's my natural hair's got me feeling frisky, what going to turn up the volume for you? Leave a comment and below and share your ideas for getting your frisky on this week.
The life we experience is designed to help us grow. My wish is that you learn from me as much as I learn from you. Share your life lessons and let's build together.