When you think about your life, the people and experiences you've, had how many do you credit as part of your own doing? How many of these people or events seemingly came into your life without desire or invitation? What choice do you have in your job, your kids, where you live, or even what's in your heart. In this week's Sun-day design I want you to think about what do you really choose and draw into your life and consider what would happen if you believe you choose everything?
Think of the power you would feel right now if you really believed that everything and everyone in your life serves a key role in your personal growth and expansion. For example, on some level did you choose an emotionally unavailable partner because your spirit knew these type of relationships would make you more aware emotionally and receptive to love? When you think about choosing your partner, you know that is a active choice you make. You also make passive choices, simply by not choosing.
Even the act of avoidance; disregard or denial are still acts of choice. Belaboring over a decision is a choice to sit in the angst or pain a little longer. This delay may serve a greater purpose and may be a necessary part of your transformation. By choice or not, the pain promotes your expansion.
Holding a framework of choice does not detract from preordained destiny, unfortunate circumstances or direct authorship in writing your life story. Choice gives you the gears to fly your plane no matter the terrain outside. Look at your own life. Accept as fact that you chose your job. Since you chose and the people you meet there everyday, how would you interact with your colleagues in a space of appreciation because for all the good or all the bad they represent in your eyes they are here to help you grow. The same is true for relationships. Do you chose your lover or friend throughout time and space or appreciate your paths crossing if but for a season? There's no right or wrong answer. Your belief is yours to choose. Leave a comment and share what you're actively choosing for your life today.
The life we experience is designed to help us grow. My wish is that you learn from me as much as I learn from you. Share your life lessons and let's build together.