Well, why not? Who else do you have control over? The impact of DESIGNING YOU goes beyond achieving your target goals. When you DESIGN YOU, you take back power over bad habits, doubt, fear, guilt, and anxiety that keeps you from stepping into your full leadership potential. When you are fully leading your life and not simply following someone's else directive you have more to give and share with others.
If you don’t believe me – just ask the people you live and work with. When you’re feeling fully charged and at the top of your game, others around you feel it. The same goes for when you’re feeling angry, worried, or victimized - others can sense your low vibrations. DESIGNING YOU benefits us all because when you expend your energy and talents on activities that are most meaningful to you, you actually recharge and reenergize, and by virtue help others in pursuing their vision and dreams.
Some of you may worry you’re being selfish if you put your needs and wants first. Self-love is part of serving, supporting, and loving others. If you’re constantly worried and stressed, or experiencing that gnawing angst inside because you resist sharing your goals, vision, feelings, or perspective; you create a wedge between you and the people you say you love, care about, or lead. Unbeknownst to you, quieting your voice stifles greater success and connection in your life. This dynamic actually reminds me of the story of Superman. It wasn't until Superman embraced his true calling (his thoughts, beliefs, and dreams) that he could he truly serve others, and as a result experienced greater love and connection.
That’s not to say you get your way every time – and that’s not what this is about. DESIGNING YOU is about sharing your voice, your heart, and your dreams while co-creating solutions and experiences that honor other people’s designs too.
What ways are you DESIGNING YOU and honoring others? Share your stories!
The life we experience is designed to help us grow. My wish is that you learn from me as much as I learn from you. Share your life lessons and let's build together.